Why would a spouse cheat if the marriage is good?

For exciting and intensely satisfying sex that is deprived or denied or not understood of each other's needs - quick judgments " My husband watches porn " If it's not porn - it's his drinking - he spends more time with his friends- he doesn't share the work around the house - he doesn't talk - doesn't respect my family - not working enough - Headaches - Fibromyalgia- TMJ - size - ED and the list grows from a page to a size of 2 PDR's.

Grass looks green elsewhere - begins the cheating - And to get what - ? SEX.

Millions of excuses - Reasons - constant fighting - arguments- And always something wrong with the other- no self reflection -

Why are German films often so formulaic even though Germany is a European culture? I love them but they follow formula very closely like Hollywood. What are the best German films?

so begins the first step heading towards separation and divorce which becomes the battle ground- my TV - my sofa - my bed - my - my - my ……..

Nothing perfect - It's not acceptable if it's not perfect - but only the other one !

Point being - Marriage seems to be good to others - it's not - it has no passion in it - and two people come to live together as room mates and share their expense - to keep their secret from others the lips get sealed - of having separate beds and separate accounts

Can a cop pull you over walking home asking why you are out so late?

My own imperfections is not the reason - you see …. !